Quite bad at everything, especially school.

Like the title said I'm quite bad at literally everything and anything I do.
Do you guys have any tips that could help, like how to study and how to keep focus.
Currently failing 2 important classes
I'm a nice person but mean to myself
Occasionally going to the gym
Scared of consequences
Hate/Rarely take initiative
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Hmm, you should try to forgot computer and everything and try to focus on school or ask you parents to take your stuff.

I can help with French homework’s btw :’)

Originally Posted by aku

Hmm, you should try to forgot computer and everything and try to focus on school or ask you parents to take your stuff.

I can help with French homework’s btw :’)

I guess it could work tbh. But everything we do in the 11th grade is done online or with the help of internet sadly. Thanks for offering help with French hm's but I don't have a French class.

Originally Posted by kidpro1

I guess it could work tbh. But everything we do in the 11th grade is done online or with the help of internet sadly. Thanks for offering help with French hm's but I don't have a French class.

What classes are they? And can you elaborate on what you mean by you can't focus? Have you tried eliminating distractions or studying in school?

Originally Posted by InCognito

What classes are they? And can you elaborate on what you mean by you can't focus? Have you tried eliminating distractions or studying in school?

Math and Physics. Can't concentrate in school unless my childhood friend is there. But he's skipping school for Pokemon Go. I can sit with a book and paper in an empty room and try to do what i'm supposed to. But if I don't find the answer i'd start to draw or just sleep. This actually happens at tests.

Originally Posted by kidpro1

Math and Physics. Can't concentrate in school unless my childhood friend is there. But he's skipping school for Pokemon Go. I can sit with a book and paper in an empty room and try to do what i'm supposed to. But if I don't find the answer i'd start to draw or just sleep. This actually happens at tests.

I think your lack of focus goes beyond just not being able to focus TBH. Do you have depression or anything like that? I say this because people who have depression or a troubled mindset usually lack the ability to think logically very well. I think you should go see a therapist or a psychiatrist, just my two cents. We won't know exactly why you can't focus but you can start there.

Leave your computer, all social media aside... Focus on studies

Originally Posted by InCognito

I think your lack of focus goes beyond just not being able to focus TBH. Do you have depression or anything like that? I say this because people who have depression or a troubled mindset usually lack the ability to think logically very well. I think you should go see a therapist or a psychiatrist, just my two cents. We won't know exactly why you can't focus but you can start there.

That is actually what i don't know. I've always been compared to my half brother for not being as good as him. But i just deny it. I also don't see a point to think of the future at all. Seems like a good idea to do something against this before it's to late.

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Originally Posted by Gravity!

Leave your computer, all social media aside... Focus on studies

Leaving my pc and games shouldn't be a problem at all. Probably only do important stuff on social medias. ( communicating with family if it's something, be updated with what happens in school and so on...

Originally Posted by kidpro1

Leaving my pc and games shouldn't be a problem at all. Probably only do important stuff on social medias. ( communicating with family if it's something, be updated with what happens in school and so on...

You should probably stop browsing MPGH and start studying now

Honestly, just time out some time that you are going to study every week
and spend less time on the computer doing recreational things, and more time
trying to pass school, as well as getting your life ready.

Originally Posted by Gravity!

You should probably stop browsing MPGH and start studying now

In school atm actually.

Originally Posted by DJEZ0103

Looks like the plan for the moment, just have to get into the routine i guess.

Ask yourself this in front of a mirror: Do I want to be a failure?
To me it just seems that you're too lazy or too scared to try and do thing for yourself.
Here are some tips for you:

Unninstall every game that you have on your computer and also any other programs that might distract you.
Make a schedule for you and stick with it.
Play team sports. Football, Handball, ... Whichever you like, just get involved at something.
When you're not studying, try to go outside, get together with friends. Maybe even get yourself a girlfriend.
And, like I said above, ask yourself that question and really think about it.

And another thing: if you follow my tips but you just can't do it, you might have attention deficit disorder (or some other problem). In this case, get professional help.

I hope everything works out for you, good luck!

Yea, stop being bad at everything you do.

I had this. You soon realise you are not simply 'bad' at specific tasks or subject areas - you can literally be good at anything if you want it. It's all down to how much effort you are willing to put in; for some people they may require less effort to get higher results - although that same result is available for you aswell! In my opinion the only factor for success is time, and how each minute is utilised for your advantage. But as you say, you lack initiative - however who the fuck says that can't change? PUT your mind to it. USE your time wisely. IF you want it, GET IT!

I hope this helps,
Good Luck

I would start asking my teacher for extra help.

Quite bad at everything, especially school.

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