Ive had enough someone halp

Right. For about two hours now ive gone through every make your own private server tut i can find and along the way theres something thats outdated/download doesnt work. i found the project b server but its not mine so i can /spawn or /give which is the only reason why i want a private server. someone please tell me a way or a link that works so i can make my own private server

and dont kill me b/c its my first post

first of all wrong section, and the second of all there is hundreds of tutorials on this website :/